Hello people,
I have always wondered why everyone is stuck in this fast paced world. Although everyone is busy everytime, they have time to feel for things which they have lost or people who doesn’t love them back.
This is a generation of sad people with a structured life where all are stuck somewhere. They are holding onto situations, people, memories and what not?
The problem is not with the society, it’s right inside us. We know what makes us sad and we choose to hold onto it. We create our own traps and continue suffering for a very long time which could have been used for some fruitful task. Here the problem becomes an obstacle in achieving all other goals and anything which is better for us.
All the pain is coming from the fact that we can not let go of things, we can’t let go of people and we fear our future without that thing or person. Breakups tend to have more effect on the mental health of a person than the loss of material things . That explains why we get more attached to people than things .
We crave attention, we crave praise. Some of us crave love from other people where a single negative action of that person brings a hell load of sorrow. We are a bunch of people who are well educated to earn but least bothered about learning to heal ourselves.
Letting go is an art which only people with a mindset can achieve . The affection or the attachment which is bringing sadness should not be in our lives. If we can enjoy all the good moments with a person, we should be able to be happy without them. This doesn’t mean that we have to be predictive in relationships but we have to be preventive .
We love a person, we get attached to them, we create a world which only knows to run with their love but has no idea how to live without that love.
Here comes the need for self love🌼
The kind of love where I can be happy with me, Enjoy my company and do things which are in my best interest. In order to do this, we should practice letting go. Attachments diverts the mind away from reality, and the illusion takes over the awareness. Holding onto a toxic thing or a person is always bad for the mind . Lack of that person makes us feel self destructive things. Depressed minds are often creating by holding on to these things.
Yes, change is good .
We should step to a phase in our life where we don’t get attatched to things or people or experiences, instead we should get attached to ourself and growth.
Let’s become a generation of happy people again….
